Category Archives: Family Night

ABC Photo Walk

We’ve been taking a lot of walks lately.  I find that when I get outside and walk on a regular basis, it does wonders for my soul.  As a family, it is a cheap and easy activity that we all enjoy. For the kids, it burns up some energy and reminds them how beautiful God’s creation is.

One night last week, we decided to go for a walk.  Only this time, we decided to do an ABC Photo Walk.  After I published my book in November, I was kind of happy to just set it aside.  I had seen too much of it!  But it’s been a few months and I was reminded why I wrote the book: so that we would have fun and frugal family activity ideas.  As I looked through the book, I was reminded again how easy and fun it can be to do things with the family.

We told the kids that we would be taking a walk around the neighborhood and looking for “letters”.  We showed them a few examples of what we meant, and they got it and were excited. Once on our walk, we tried a few things (going in order from oldest to youngest and then looking for letters in order) but in the end, we found that as long as one person wasn’t trying to take over and we worked as a team, we just called out letters as we saw them and it all went smoothly.

We were afraid that it would take a long time or that we would have letters we couldn’t find, but it turned out to be quite simple.  I think it only took us about 30-40 minutes to find every letter of the alphabet!  It was a lot of fun and a good way to break up and otherwise normal Thursday night!  We didn’t leave our neighborhood and yet we had a great time and a wonderful memory.  Maybe I need to dust off my book more often!

Have you done any fun family activities lately?



My eBook Release!

It’s been a long time coming! This project started in my head who-knows-how-long-ago and in actuality back in the summer.  But life and family meant that the process would be longer and slower than I had hoped.  However, I can now happily say that this labor of love is officially finished and ready to share!  Here’s the official description:

If spending quality time together as a family—without it costing a fortune—is your desire, look no further. MORE THAN A MOVIE is a collection of 50 ideas for fun and frugal family nights that don’t involve turning on the T.V.

Each of the four sections—Food, Fun, Thinking of Others, and Out & About—will inspire you with short chapters listing easy-to-gather materials and a simple how-to. Most activities require very little preparation and are all easy on the wallet.

Janet Phillips—the author and a happy mother of five—believes that family and fun shouldn’t cost a fortune. As you look at her creative ideas, you’ll be amazed to see how cheap and simple a fun-filled family night can be. All you really need is a willing heart and the desire to enjoy a fun evening with the people you love most.


I am so thankful for so many people who cheered me on and supported me in this endeavor. There is no way I could have done this alone.  My family and close friends have helped me find a place for my heart to be shared with others. I am so incredibly grateful.

You can learn more about the book RIGHT HERE, including how to purchase a copy for Kindle, for Nook, and as a .pdf file (for viewing on the computer, for printing, or for reading on most eReaders).  You can also download a free chapter!


If you think this is something that your friends or family would enjoy, I would love if you could share the information with others. An email, a blog post, a post on Facebook—all of these things go a long way in “getting the word out.”

Family Night: HOTEL NIGHT (at home!)

Welcome to the SUPER HOTEL…where it’s so comfortable, you’d think you were at home.  Oh wait, it IS home!

Last weekend we had another fun family night!  It was our eight-year-old’s turn to choose and she knew just what she wanted to do: Hotel Night!  You see, staying at hotels is one of our family’s very favorite activities.  There is just something so fun about getting away, all of us crammed in one room, with nothing to distract us from just enjoying one another. Ever since we have had kids, staying at hotels every so often is something we have chosen to invest in. Oftentimes, we don’t even leave our city.  And still, so much fun is to be had.  No housework, no computers, no one knocking on our door.  Just togetherness, laughs, good food, and lots of fun. Our kids, of course, love the fact that we allow them to jump on beds at hotels (something we don’t allow at home!)

For this family night, though, we thought we would stay even closer to home. We had a “hotel night” AT home! We decided that from “check in” until “check out,” we would pretend that our master bedroom was a hotel room and we would all stay together for the night.  When our daughter chose this activity, she wasn’t lacking in the creativity department!  Really, she thought of everything. There are even some things that give evidence to the fact that we live overseas and some things are just done differently here.

First, there were signs all over the house!  She had one outside by the “pool” (a fish pond), one in the entry way, one a little farther in, signs on our door…you get the picture.

She also had a check in desk set up, complete with a computerized form.

The kids packed their bags and ventured downstairs to get checked in. We received our keys and made our way to Room 283!

Once inside the room, we got to see some of the other amazing touches that she added.  I love the baby Orajel for our teething five-month-old and the fact that there are enough water cups for the whole family — something we never get at hotels!

The boys said that their favorite parts of the room were the “free iPad” and the dog!

After we “checked in,” we got settled, the kids got changed into jammies (which were, by the way, two of dad’s t-shirts since the girls forgot PJ’s!). and there was a small dance party.  Next, the pizza guy came!  We can’t get pizza delivered where we live, but since it is something we try to do when we are at a real hotel, we recreated the experience by having Jason pick up pizza in town earlier in the day.

After dinner we all crawled in bed and watched a movie and then, blissfully, all went to bed at 7:00 pm (well, except for Jason who snuck out for a bit.  Shhh…don’t tell the kids!)

The next morning the pizza guy turned into the doughnut guy and a dozen Dunkin’ Donuts appeared at our door! Yum!  After breakfast, we hung out some more and around 9:30 we all got packed up and said farewell to our glorious hotel night.  I can’t wait for the next one!

I think my favorite part of the night, other than just being with my family, was seeing my daughter get so creative.  We’ve stayed at a enough hotels that she knows how they work and she spent a lot of time and energy making sure our hotel room was perfect.  She did such a great job.  We had fun and she had the experience of using her creativity and gift for hospitality to make us all feel welcome.  Kids have such an amazing ability to be creative and to show off their wonderful imaginations!

I highly encourage you to try having your own hotel night! It’s easy, it’s free, and it’s oh-so-fun!

Family Night: MAKEOVERS!

Spending time as a family is something we love to do.  It is also something we have to be very intentional about.  It is so easy to let the normal routines of life keep us from just being together.  Families can spend so much of their time running to this lesson and that play date, to this church event and that Scout Meeting.  The art of being at home, of being with your family, being actively engaged in an activity together (that doesn’t involve the TV!) is all but lost today.  It saddens me, and yet I know that without a plan and a purpose, we too will fall into the trap of not knowing how to simply enjoy each other.

And so, we try to be intentional about doing activities together at home.  Many are simple — baking together, playing games, gardening, reading books, and playing silly games at the dinner table. At other times, though, we try to take the next step and teach our kids how easy it is to create fun at home (without spending a fortune!)  We have a little treasure called our Jar of Fun that we will often do activities out of.  Recently, I have also written up a bunch of ideas of frugal family nights to do together. As Alaina, my oldest, was looking through them last week, I told her she could pick out an activity for that night. It took her all of about two seconds to choose FAMILY MAKEOVERS!

The activity was simple: break up into partners and let the other person give you a makeover (any way they choose!)   We try to keep lots of fun things like costumes and  face paint available, so we knew that the kids would have no trouble coming up with ideas and inspiration.  They love to get silly (especially when mom and dad are part of it!) In the end, we actually split up into two groups of three with a round robin approach: I made over Caleb, Caleb made over Levi, Levi made over me.  Jason made over Alaina, Alaina made over Katie, and Katie made over Jason (and Bethany was sleeping). Even Little Lucy couldn’t escape Family Makeover Night!

It’s amazing how much fun you can have when mom and dad stop being “adults” for a while and just let the little people lead the fun.  The messes are short-lived, but the memories will last forever!

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