The natives were getting restless.
We've been taking an early summer break to give us all a rest before we start our summer school schedule (reading and math). After a few weeks of endless trampoline and slack line time, I started to notice a few mopey glances and a lot of "what are we going to do today?" questions.
I'm not the camp and cruise director type of mom. I believe it is good for kids to be bored and un-entertained. First, it teaches them that I don't exist merely to provide daily entertainment. Second, when children are bored, they naturally move into creative ideas to pass the time. Third, because our family does a lot of hiking, camping, and other outdoor activities, the down days are good for them.
That said, I do at times provide the kids with some activity ideas if they seem to be twiddling their fingers as they figure out what the afternoon is going to look like.
Last week, after a few hours of us drawing pictures, playing games, and having fun, they still wanted to do more. I had some work to do, so I told them I would give them an activity if they committed to doing it. I wouldn't tell them what it was, but I explained they would have to be creative and work together.
After being assured I didn't intend for them to clean the house (but what a great idea!), they accepted my challenge and I told them their mission:
Create a coffee shop for the family
"It must include coffee (of course) as well as fresh-baked treats. Each of you must have a role/part to play and you will all need to work together to figure out a plan and how to get it done. And no one individual kid (**cough**cough**Alaina**cough**first-born**) should take over the plans. "
With smiles on their faces and creative ideas churning in their minds, they kicked me out and I gladly obeyed orders to not return until I was called. A few hours later, we were requested to enter through the front door. And this is what greeted us:
They did an amazing job. I love seeing their creativity! We used to do this kind of thing on a regular basis (like this hotel night a few years ago). But life has been busy and stressful and sometimes creative activities like this fall through the cracks.
I am so glad that even though the kid are older now, they still became really involved in the activity. It's good for the older kids to think through all the details and it is good for the younger ones to experience it in order to see how they can come up with activities on their own.
I loved all the little details...the decorate your own cupcakes, the "employees only" sign, the Happy Camper mug, the menu, the picture frame, the kiddie play area, games set out, and more!
After roasting marshmallows and playing games, it was time to clean up. That's when the older kids gave Bethany her role: being the janitor. Never has there been a cuter or more enthusiastic Cinderella.